Relationships can be so exciting at the start. It’s a time when you just can’t wait to see each other, spend every spare minute dreaming about each other and just can’t keep off the phone. Unfortunately as the relationship develops into a comfortable routine, the excitement generally recedes, the need to touch base becomes more infrequent and a period of normality sets in. For many, the excitement is in the chase and for others the feeling of commitment can become a strain, the recognition that the love of your life is only human and has their faults makes you question your judgment, and the disappearance of those little surprises can out a dampener on the whole thing. The need to make that extra special effort goes to the back of peoples minds flirtation tends to become a thing of the past and the ‘extra special’ element that generated the attraction in the first place starts to dissipate. At this point in the relationship a few tips can be just what you need to set you back on the right track.
There are numerous relationship tips that will help you on your way, not every tip will be right for you and there are far too many relationship tips to be listed in one article. However there are quite a few tips that are the backbone to a healthy long-term relationship.
• Never assume that because you have been together for a long time that you no longer need to make an effort where your relationship is concerned. If anyone told you that once you have your partner life would be easy they were lying, like most things in life if you want your relationship to last you need to put the effort in.
• My second relationship tip is focus on your partner’s good points and not their bad ones. None of us are perfect, we all have our faults and we are unlikely to every change. What is wrong about us is usually there at the start of any relationship so don’t refocus your attention on the bad points just because you’ve caught your fish!
• One relationship tip that is near the top of the list is never let go of that quality time no matter how busy your life can be. Even if you can survive quite happily on the odd snatched moment give consideration to your partners needs.
• Keep some fun in your life, don’t grow old before your time, enjoy yourselves don’t make life too serious.
• Relax, ease the tension and reduce the stress, tension is a real relationship killer.
• Learn to communicate. This is one relationship tip that you must never forget. How to communicate is covered on many articles on the net (including my own). This is one area that you need to master so take a little time to understand the meaning of communication and how to communicate.
• Keep intimate. If you loose the intimacy in your life you loose the very backbone of your relationship. The odd caress, the fleeting glance and the kiss goodbye all help to keep the excitement alive.
• Don’t just give up on those little surprises and gifts, long-term relationships do not mean that you shouldn’t still show that you still care for each other.
• It is so easy to become too complacent in a relationship, heed this little tip, don’t do it, never take anything or anyone for granted, you can never assume that things will just stay the same for ever without any effort from either side. Love each other, be kind to each other, respect each other and work together to fulfill both your dreams.
• Don’t just say it, show it and mean it. It is so easy to say you love someone, it’s a very small word, but saying it isn’t enough, you have to show it and you have to mean it!!
• It is easy to grow apart when all’s you do is share the same bed. Relationships are all about sharing and caring. Take note of this relationship tip and look for than common interest, make sure you do something together that you both enjoy and don’t just base your relationship on the bedroom!!
• In any relationship there is always a point when things don’t go quite so smooth. One of the best relationship tips I can give you is don’t ignore the signs. If things aren’t going quite right and your partner is hinting that they aren’t happy, don’t just bury your head in the sand. Listen, understand and do something about it.
• Work as a team and don’t shirk your responsibilities. No one likes chores but they have to be done, split the tasks, tackle them together and make sure you both enjoy the same amount of quality time.
• Support each other and make sure you both are given the freedom to achieve your life’s goals. Remember that in relationships there is no room for selfishness, you can’t just say I’m all right and what my partner needs doesn’t count. You need to plan your life together, make sure that you can both achieve what you want to achieve and where there is conflict, compromise.
Relationships are all about give and take, understanding your partner, enjoying the experience and always looking for that little thing that keeps your relationship alive. Understand and respect each other for who you are, don’t expect perfection because if you do you will always be disappointed. Learn to change with the times, embrace change and look forward to the excitement it brings. Above all never assume that the grass is any greener on the other side!
Source by Terry Ross
